Kaelynn Partlow
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Learning Social Skills is NOT Autistic Masking
The term for what I’m talking about here is “social referencing” and the neurotypicals do it subconsciously ALL THE TIME!
Giving someone access to this information is NOT the same as forcing them to mask their autism. It’s just a matter of making the same information that everyone else gets…ACCESSIBLE to autistic people.
It’s up to each of us (autistic and non-autistic) to decide how we respond to social information. But please understand that everyone deserves to HAVE this information. 💖
#autism #autistic #autismawareness #adhd #neurodivergent #psychology #therapy #aba #appliedbehavioranalysis #autismacceptance
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Відео

The Autistic Need for Precise  Communication
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For most autistic people, direct communication is extremely helpful. However, for many autistic individuals, when being direct isn’t enough…it’s important that we be PRECISE with our language to give folks the best chance of understanding. 💖 #autism #autistic #autismawareness #neurodivergent #psychology #therapy #aba #appliedbehavioranalysis #autismacceptance #adhd
Bonding with Autistic Children
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Most (but not all) autistic kids do NOT respond well (if at all) when they are bombarded with questions. ❌ While some autistic kids might like ✨conversational questions✨ related to their areas of interest…many would prefer other ways of connecting. Whether you’re a therapist, teacher, caretaker, or family member…remember to try alternative methods for strengthening your relationship & getting t...
Autism & Friendship - See how we make it work!
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Autism & Friendship - See how we make it work!
Kaelynn Tries a “Calming” Sensory Toy
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Kaelynn Tries a “Calming” Sensory Toy
Autism Advocate Argues with Disability Professional
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Autism Advocate Argues with Disability Professional
“Profound Autism” is Hidden from Social Media
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“Profound Autism” is Hidden from Social Media
Autism Jokes Are NOT Funny?
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Autism Jokes Are NOT Funny?
My Autism-Fueled Dog Obsession at AKC Meet The Breeds
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My Autism-Fueled Dog Obsession at AKC Meet The Breeds
Kaelynn Responds to Love On The Spectrum Critique
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Kaelynn Responds to Love On The Spectrum Critique
Autism Sensory Issues Are REAL - How Lip Scrub Made Me Cry
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Autism Sensory Issues Are REAL - How Lip Scrub Made Me Cry
Autism & Relationship Boundaries
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Autism & Relationship Boundaries
Autism and Masking - Am I Doing it Wrong?
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Autism and Masking - Am I Doing it Wrong?
Autism and Scripting
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Autism and Scripting
Planned Ignoring in Autism Treatment
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Planned Ignoring in Autism Treatment
Autism Diagnosis & Self Acceptance
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Autism Diagnosis & Self Acceptance
The Problem with the Neurodiversity Movement
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The Problem with the Neurodiversity Movement
Autism Related Statistics
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Autism Related Statistics
Project Hope Autism Speech
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Project Hope Autism Speech
Self Image Before My Autism Diagnosis
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Self Image Before My Autism Diagnosis
Kaelynn Talks About Winter Sensory Activities for Kids
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Kaelynn Talks About Winter Sensory Activities for Kids
Explaining Autism to Myself as a Child
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Explaining Autism to Myself as a Child
Angry Disability Advocates
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Angry Disability Advocates
Medical vs. Social Model of Disability
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Medical vs. Social Model of Disability
Autism travel tips
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Autism travel tips
Autistic People Can Thrive In Society
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Autistic People Can Thrive In Society

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @TRW98
    @TRW98 38 хвилин тому

    I am autistic and I love indirect Communication. If the other person doesn't agree I can just say I didn't mean it. It was just a comment not a request. Less uncomfortable then asking and getting a no.

  • @mageSjoy
    @mageSjoy Годину тому

    I take pills with applesauce! Makes it way easier. If you have to use water, it helps some people to put the water in first then drop the pill in.

  • @Wetakesoursips
    @Wetakesoursips Годину тому

    We take sour sips

  • @headstanding_Penguin
    @headstanding_Penguin Годину тому

    Where can I get that Diagram?

  • @actipton80
    @actipton80 2 години тому

    I hold my hands that way because it's comfortable. Then I can just flip my arm over and carry four grocery bags on one arm.

  • @BleuLutin
    @BleuLutin 3 години тому

    My DDS office will put the lead vests on my legs during my visits. It is so calming!

  • @Gremling-gu1kg
    @Gremling-gu1kg 3 години тому

    "Things that dont have a soul get washed in cold things that do get washed in warm" *me who is ginger* So.. So do i have warm showers or cold??

  • @cardaveux
    @cardaveux 3 години тому

    I'm happy not to have it. I'm learning soon italian (i'm swiss german) and i have to be able to correctly read and write italian words.

  • @MousLS25
    @MousLS25 4 години тому

    Finally someone who talks about it ! In my case, I repeat many times a quote more because I feel this one interesting, sounds really good or even cool. I do this since youth and I don't feel bad about it...

  • @MousLS25
    @MousLS25 6 годин тому

    I wonder why, sometimes when another colleague ask the same question, the kind of answer is different... Maybe because both colleagues are more friendly each other than I am ? Maybe I lacked something when I asked "how was your weekend ?" Maybe he/she doesn't want to say more to me in detail (no that I care but still) ?

  • @Vanessa_Sharma
    @Vanessa_Sharma 6 годин тому

    :D

  • @savage.4.24
    @savage.4.24 7 годин тому

    Seeing both of you together is a moment I NEVER THOUGHT I WOULD SEE and I am so happy to be alive in the here and now right now. Just know when I'm really glad I make a little 'EEE' sound and 🎉🎉🎉EEEEEEEEE🎉🎉🎉

  • @Noxious518
    @Noxious518 8 годин тому

    it's related to your focus as a person with autism

  • @hileuphs
    @hileuphs 9 годин тому

    I didn't get know trains or know dog breeds autism I got know bird species autism

  • @SexyKnittingMama
    @SexyKnittingMama 10 годин тому

    WHAT IS THAT RUG?!?!? my son is autistic and that thing looks like his HEAVEN.

  • @HermioneGirl1987
    @HermioneGirl1987 10 годин тому

    This is a great way to remember if you’ve taken your medication. I have epilepsy and I have to take medication twice a day every day. For me I have to take it as soon as I wake up and before I fall asleep. (If I think I’ve forgotten I get really bad anxiety.) I also have a clear/transparent cup that stays next to my sink. The wet/dry idea is genius. I’m going to do that! ❤

  • @courtneyshuttleworth3704
    @courtneyshuttleworth3704 11 годин тому

    I love how your shirt looks like SpongeBob.

  • @jaymesigler6402
    @jaymesigler6402 11 годин тому

    I just take trazadone...

  • @newton2336
    @newton2336 11 годин тому

  • @AxionSmurf
    @AxionSmurf 12 годин тому

    Ah yeah, I've had this problem with wanting to sit awkwardly, wanting to leave my hands and wrists in weird positions, and my feet as well, and my ankles and feet aren't too happy about being left in weird positions as I've gotten older. It's possible to correct it though by asking yourself how people would see you right now periodically, then you try to model the ergonomic pose. It's not much different than booting up your other masks to interact with specific people. You know, like the ones who have different politics than you, and they run their mouth a lot about the chainsaw-wielding, nazi other side, and they don't know you're one of them, and you're not going to tell them. It's a game: "Let's not fuck up our skeleton, for the future's sake." It was a job training myself to sit up straight in my car during the 10 hour weekly work commute. But I was having to use posture belts and spinal correctors and a cervical neck-jack to fix the problems caused by my weird posture. Took me a while, but I finally did it. Highly recommend.

  • @hans5130
    @hans5130 12 годин тому

    You were participating in art appreciation. Wears the hot strawberry fields

  • @gachafnaf607
    @gachafnaf607 13 годин тому

    My question to you is how do you do normal work or school if you have problems with sleep and are like this because I’m the same and am struggling so hard and I want some advice or anything to try and see if I can still be normal

    • @gachafnaf607
      @gachafnaf607 13 годин тому

      Plus my mom is normally trying to sleep and I don’t want to disturb so I just try to just sit still best of my time and be quit but it’s so hard

  • @jenguerinnn
    @jenguerinnn 13 годин тому

    OMG what an epic moment i dont think id be able to contain myself!!! I didnt know you were coming out with a book but immediately signed up for email notifications and im so glad i saw this video so that i could! Thanks for representing is such a positive light and teaching the tools and coping mechanisms that some of us never had to chance to learn on our own growing up or through adulthood.... Youre friggin awesome

  • @Courtney-xh8xf
    @Courtney-xh8xf 13 годин тому

    I showed my 4 year old autistic son this and his eyes looked mesmerized.

  • @Captaintrippz
    @Captaintrippz 14 годин тому

    Imo, everything is more efficient than the neurotypical way.

  • @jjbearz2275
    @jjbearz2275 14 годин тому

    Omg I literally wrote that in my journal..., I thought I was the only one. IM A TROLL 😊😮

  • @JulsLittleBeirutAnarchy
    @JulsLittleBeirutAnarchy 15 годин тому

    Meow 🙀...

  • @CirnoIceFairy
    @CirnoIceFairy 15 годин тому

    thank you for making this video :) i completely agree; and your videos really give me some perspective and great tips for having autism

  • @Lo-nk7jl
    @Lo-nk7jl 15 годин тому

    May ask what iPad case you have?

  • @wes11bravo
    @wes11bravo 15 годин тому

    My daughter was The Sleepless Kid from the time of her birth til she was maybe 3. Thankfully she grew out of it. Once when she was about 2, I held her and she would start crying unless I did these bouncy 1/4 knee bends. I did them for hours, like 2,972 of them.

  • @yvonnenino5588
    @yvonnenino5588 15 годин тому

    Yes thank you so much and pple don't believe me and I mex number and letters as well I'm so embarrassed still I'm 33

  • @CraftyWitch2603
    @CraftyWitch2603 16 годин тому

    Ill eat chocolate strawberries with you

  • @sodaaccount
    @sodaaccount 16 годин тому

    Im so ashamed of myself! I have a "pretty bad dental hygiene", I brush my teeth twice per day, but I got behind on care during an intense meltdown phase during which I just wanted to die. Well now I got the problems associated with it, but one of my triggers is anything mouth related... Its so frustrating!

  • @Aspen_Suxs
    @Aspen_Suxs 16 годин тому

    I’ve always suspected I was dyslexic but my whole life I’ve been told “no there’s no way your dyslexic, you love reading and are a fast reader” and have been trying for years to explain that dyslexia IS NOT JUST HAVUNG TROUBLE READING 😭

  • @teethsv4824
    @teethsv4824 17 годин тому

    This sounds somewhat similar to ocd

  • @MsKittenQueen
    @MsKittenQueen 17 годин тому

    What if you are sick and you dont prepare und dont come down?

  • @willowswonderfulworld8166
    @willowswonderfulworld8166 18 годин тому

    So relatable im autistic

  • @AlienKittys
    @AlienKittys 18 годин тому

    All of them I do. it is such a struggle when reading I can’t and have to use my finger. And my eyes blur for some reason when I try to read and is so hard to focus when reading and when I focus my eyes stop being blurry. Also idk if this is a sign but I sometimes can’t spell and I’m scared I get it wrong so I use text to speech for that one word. Also I can’t do like any handshake that’s not repetitive and same thing with TikTok dances. I mix up my lefts and right most of the time and have to use my hands. Also have read many words wrong when reading especially out loud.

  • @user-yy7gq5yw5k
    @user-yy7gq5yw5k 18 годин тому

    Idk why people just don’t say straight up

  • @ferchio4801
    @ferchio4801 20 годин тому

    Soon as I heard "psychos with spots" i felt validated. They are...

  • @duckbillwill_01
    @duckbillwill_01 20 годин тому

    i dont thibk im autistic, but watching u and other creators with autism has shown me just how many autistic tendencies and traits i have. probably related to my adhd.

  • @lhmccool67
    @lhmccool67 20 годин тому

    Congratulations! 🎉

  • @cristymarie6450
    @cristymarie6450 20 годин тому

    I used these tips when I went on my cruise recently! The slug and headphones did wonders with crowded spaces, thanks!

  • @lunalovescake5874
    @lunalovescake5874 20 годин тому

    As someone who's self-diagnosed but 100% sure has dyslexia. I just stare at stuff A LOT! Reading somthing… I stare at it until I get it. 🌚🤌 I learnt these techniques as someone who got 0 help for it for 13 years :) I was labelled as a slow learner and then someone who couldn't learn reading. Right now I'm using 3 different ado corrects lol

  • @naideanunger7949
    @naideanunger7949 21 годину тому

    I also have autism and I can speak really well but I also do have some moments where I'm like oh yeah and I have a service dog her name is Luna she comes with me pretty much

  • @bendtheatom-chadaddy
    @bendtheatom-chadaddy 21 годину тому

    Autistic ADHD late in life diagnosis, and finding videos like this helps me feel like I’m not alone

  • @petermcnallt12pm
    @petermcnallt12pm 21 годину тому

    Flip sake...everybody is autistic now!! Can't we just have people as they are?!

    • @Jorbanana
      @Jorbanana 13 годин тому

      Just shut up. When people stopped being shunned for being left handed no one complained that suddenly everyone was left handed.

  • @ladyalfhildrforestofvioletmist
    @ladyalfhildrforestofvioletmist 21 годину тому

    I love that swing! I want a little swing in my room like that...

  • @jpeg42069
    @jpeg42069 21 годину тому

    I used to have Irish setters growing up ❤ they’re such sweet dogs

  • @zainaballawati2264
    @zainaballawati2264 22 години тому

    It really helped thank u😊